Why Well-Wishers Are More Important Than Friends in Life
Friendship gives us companionship, but a genuine well-wisher gives us something even more valuable—the courage to tell us the truth, the wisdom to guide us when we are wrong and the happiness to see us grow even when there is nothing in it for them.
By Sonu Tyagi, Founder, Go Spiritual & Approach Entertainment
We spend much of our lives looking for friends. From childhood and college to our professional and social lives, friendship is considered one of the most important human relationships. We celebrate friendships, remember old friends, make new ones and often measure the richness of our social lives by the number of people around us. But as we move through success, failure, relationships, disappointments and changing circumstances, life gradually teaches us something deeper: having many friends is not nearly as important as having a few genuine well-wishers.
A friend and a well-wisher are not necessarily the same person. A true friend will naturally be a well-wisher, but everyone we call a friend may not genuinely wish the best for us. At the same time, someone who is not particularly close to us may sincerely want us to succeed, remain healthy, make the right decisions, overcome our weaknesses and become a better human being. That distinction becomes increasingly important as we grow older.
A friend may enjoy spending time with you, but a well-wisher cares about what happens to you when the good time is over. A friend may make you comfortable, while a well-wisher may sometimes make you uncomfortable by telling you something you need to hear. A friend may agree with you because disagreement could disturb the relationship, while a genuine well-wisher may disagree precisely because your life matters more to them than your temporary approval. That is why I believe genuine well-wishers are among the greatest blessings we can receive in life.
Most friendships begin because two people have something in common. We study together, work together, live nearby, share interests, enjoy similar conversations or simply like each other’s company. There is nothing wrong with this. Human beings need companionship, belonging and emotional connection. But circumstances change. School ends, jobs change, people move to different cities, financial situations improve or deteriorate, people marry, have families, change professions, become successful or go through difficult periods. Many relationships naturally become distant because the circumstances that created them no longer exist.
A genuine well-wisher can survive these changes because goodwill is not entirely dependent on convenience. Someone may not speak to you every day and still sincerely pray for your happiness and success. Someone may meet you only occasionally and still give you the right advice when you need it. Someone may not attend every celebration in your life but may quietly stand beside you during your most difficult period. We should therefore never confuse the frequency of communication with the depth of someone’s goodwill. Sometimes the person constantly around us is not our greatest well-wisher, while someone sitting hundreds of kilometres away may genuinely want the best for us.
Perhaps the greatest value of a well-wisher becomes visible when we are wrong. When everything is going well, almost everyone around us can appear supportive. The real test comes when we are making a mistake. We may be taking a wrong professional decision, damaging an important relationship, becoming arrogant after success, developing an unhealthy habit, behaving unfairly towards someone or simply failing to see our own weaknesses. At that moment, what kind of person do we really need? Someone who tells us that everything we are doing is right because that is what we want to hear, or someone who has the courage to tell us, with compassion, that we may be making a mistake?
The second person may temporarily annoy us, but that person may actually be far more valuable to our life. One of the dangers of success is that the number of people agreeing with us can increase while the number of people willing to correct us decreases. The more successful, wealthy, famous, powerful or influential someone becomes, the more important genuine well-wishers become. Flattery feels pleasant, but it rarely helps us grow. A person who always agrees with you may protect the relationship, but a person who respectfully corrects you may sometimes protect your life.
Another important test of a well-wisher is how they respond to your success. Human relationships are complicated by comparison. Two people may genuinely like each other and still experience jealousy when one begins moving ahead. We compare careers, income, houses, relationships, recognition, social status and achievements. Social media has intensified this tendency because we are constantly exposed to carefully selected versions of other people’s lives.
A genuine well-wisher rises above this competition. When something wonderful happens to you, they do not immediately think, “Why not me?” They are capable of saying, “I am genuinely happy for you.” That sentence may sound simple, but being truly happy for another person’s success requires considerable emotional maturity. The person who celebrates your success without feeling diminished by it is precious. Someone who wants you to become bigger without fearing that they will become smaller deserves a special place in your life. A genuine well-wisher does not compete with your light; they are happy to see you shine.
Life also reveals people when our circumstances change. There are periods when the phone keeps ringing, invitations arrive, people want meetings and everyone seems interested in being associated with us. Our ideas suddenly appear brilliant, our presence becomes desirable and many people want to be part of our world. Then circumstances can change. A business may fail, a career may slow down, a position may disappear, fame may fade, money may become difficult, health may deteriorate or a personal crisis may arrive. Suddenly, some phones stop ringing.
These periods can be painful, but they are also deeply educational. Difficulty has an extraordinary ability to reveal the nature of relationships. When you have something people want, it can be difficult to distinguish affection from interest. When you have very little to offer, the distinction becomes much clearer. A genuine well-wisher does not calculate your value according to your designation, bank balance, influence, fame or usefulness. They remember the human being behind all these temporary identities. Success introduces us to many people; difficult times often introduce us to the people who genuinely care.
It is equally important to understand that a well-wisher may not necessarily be someone we traditionally describe as a friend. Some of our greatest well-wishers may be our parents, teachers, mentors, colleagues, seniors, siblings, spouses or people with whom we do not share a conventionally close friendship. There may even be someone who regularly disagrees with us but sincerely wants us to do well. We should therefore stop evaluating every meaningful relationship only through labels. Instead of merely asking, “Who are my friends?”, perhaps we should occasionally ask, “Who genuinely wants the best for me?” The answer may surprise us.
There is also a deeper spiritual dimension to this idea. Much of our suffering in relationships comes from possession and expectation. We expect people to call us, remember us, support us, agree with us, invite us, praise us and behave according to our expectations. When they do not, we feel disappointed or hurt. Spiritual growth gradually teaches us that love does not always have to possess. Sometimes the purest form of affection is simply wanting another human being to be peaceful, healthy, successful and happy, even when we receive nothing from their happiness.
This is where an ordinary relationship can evolve into something much deeper. A relationship based primarily on expectation keeps asking, “What am I getting from you?” A relationship based on genuine goodwill begins asking, “Am I bringing something good into your life?” That movement from expectation towards goodwill is one of the most beautiful forms of inner transformation.
A genuine well-wisher also does not encourage our weaknesses simply to keep us happy. There is a mistaken belief that people who support us should support everything we do. That is not genuine support. If someone encourages our anger, arrogance, irresponsibility, dishonesty, addiction or destructive behaviour simply because they want to remain on our good side, they may actually be contributing to our problems. A genuine well-wisher understands the difference between supporting a person and supporting that person’s mistakes. They can stand beside us without justifying everything we do.
This is particularly important for our psychological and emotional growth. Sometimes we need reassurance. Sometimes we need encouragement. Sometimes we need rest, professional help or simply somebody who listens without judging us. But there are also times when we need a trustworthy person to hold a mirror in front of us. Someone who helps us see ourselves more clearly can contribute more to our growth than dozens of people who simply applaud us.
We should also be careful not to judge people’s intentions merely by the sweetness of their words. The person who praises us may not always be our well-wisher, and the person who criticises us may not necessarily be our enemy. Criticism can certainly come from jealousy, bitterness or negativity, and we need the wisdom to recognise that. But constructive criticism from someone who genuinely wants us to improve should not automatically be rejected merely because it hurts our ego. Spiritual maturity requires us to examine intention. Was this person trying to humiliate me, or were they trying to help me see something I could not see myself? Sometimes one honest sentence from a genuine well-wisher can save us from years of unnecessary difficulty.
There is, however, an even more important question than identifying our own well-wishers: for whom are we a genuine well-wisher? Spirituality should never be only about what we receive from relationships. It should make us examine what we contribute to them. We all want people who celebrate our success, but do we genuinely celebrate theirs? We want people who remain with us when we struggle, but do we remain when they struggle? We want people who tell us the truth, but do we have the courage to speak truth with compassion? We want people who do not use us, but are our own relationships free from calculation? We want others to forgive our imperfections, but how forgiving are we of theirs?
Spirituality begins when we stop using every teaching to evaluate other people and start applying it to ourselves. Instead of spending our entire lives searching for the perfect friend, perhaps we should first try to become a genuine well-wisher to the people around us. Wish good for people without expecting something in return. Help when you can. Correct without humiliating. Celebrate without comparing. Support without controlling. Forgive without constantly reminding someone of their mistakes. And sometimes, simply pray that another human being finds happiness and peace, even if you are no longer an important part of their life.
As we grow older, the number of people around us becomes less important than the quality of their intentions. We do not need hundreds of people calling themselves our friends. Even a handful of people who sincerely want us to remain healthy, peaceful, grounded, successful and good human beings can be an extraordinary blessing.
We should protect such relationships. We should not take genuine well-wishers for granted merely because they are not constantly visible. We should not lose someone who genuinely cares about us simply because they once told us an uncomfortable truth. And we should never confuse constant praise with loyalty, social proximity with affection, networking with friendship or popularity with meaningful human connection.
When you find someone who is genuinely happy when you succeed, concerned when you are going wrong, present when circumstances become difficult and honest enough to correct you without trying to control you, value that person. Friends can make our journey enjoyable, but genuine well-wishers can help make our journey meaningful, wiser and better.
Ultimately, life is not about collecting the maximum number of relationships. It is about discovering a few relationships in which there is truth without cruelty, support without selfishness, affection without possession and goodwill without expectation. Perhaps one of life’s greatest blessings is not simply having people who enjoy being with us, but having people who genuinely want something beautiful for us even when they have absolutely nothing to gain from it.
And perhaps an even greater spiritual achievement is becoming that kind of person for someone else.
— Sonu Tyagi
Founder, Go Spiritual & Approach Entertainment
Visit at www.sonutyagi.com & www.approachentertainment.com
Sonu Tyagi is an award-winning writer, director and producer, and Founder of Go Spiritual and Approach Entertainment. With over two decades of experience in media, journalism, advertising, public relations, films and entertainment, he has built a multidisciplinary career in communications and creative industries. Through Approach Entertainment, he works across celebrity management, film productions, advertising, film marketing and events. Through Go Spiritual, Tyagi promotes spirituality, compassion, humanity, mental wellness, vegetarianism, non-violence and conscious living. He believes real spirituality is about inner transformation—developing self-awareness, resilience, peace and compassion while becoming a better and more responsible human being.
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Known as Sudevi Dasi, the German-born spiritual seeker who arrived in India in 1978 has devoted decades of her life to caring for abandoned, sick, injured and disabled cows at Radha Kund, turning her spiritual search into an extraordinary example of compassion and selfless service
Mathura: In 1978, a 20-year-old woman from Berlin arrived in India while travelling across the world and searching for a deeper meaning to life. Nearly five decades later, Friederike Irina Bruning, now widely known as Sudevi Dasi or Sudevi Mataji, has become one of the most remarkable examples of how a personal spiritual journey can evolve into a lifetime of compassion and selfless service. From her home at Radha Kund in Mathura, she has dedicated decades to caring for abandoned, sick, injured and disabled cows, a mission that eventually earned her the Padma Shri, one of India’s highest civilian honours.

Born in Berlin on March 2, 1958, Bruning grew up in a Christian family. After finishing school, she began travelling in search of experience and meaning, journeying overland from Germany through Turkey, Iran and Afghanistan before reaching India. Her travels later took her through Sri Lanka and several Southeast Asian countries before she returned to India. During this period of exploration, she encountered the Bhagavad Gita, an experience that had a profound influence on the direction of her life. According to her official biography, she came to regard its teachings as a revelation of profound spiritual knowledge and decided that she needed a guru to guide her further on the spiritual path.
That search eventually brought her to Radha Kund in Govardhan, Mathura, one of the sacred centres associated with the Krishna tradition. There, she found her spiritual guru, Shri Shri 108 Shri Kishorikishoranand Goswami Babaji Maharaj, also known as Shri Tinkodi Baba Ji Maharaj, and received the initiated name Sudevi Dasi. Her official biography says she subsequently spent around two decades following her guru’s instructions and devoting herself to bhajan and spiritual practice.
Yet the defining transformation in her life came through something remarkably simple: an act of compassion towards a suffering animal.
One day, Bruning found an injured calf lying on the road with a broken leg. She brought the animal home and began caring for it. Instead of remaining an isolated act of kindness, that rescue changed the course of her life. She started taking in more cows and calves found injured, sick or abandoned on the streets. What began with one suffering calf gradually grew into Radha Surabhi Gaushala, a large Gau Seva mission at Radha Kund.
Today, her mission is associated with the care of more than 2,500 cows, according to recent accounts and information published by the gaushala. Many of these animals are not ordinary cattle requiring only food and shelter; they include abandoned, sick, injured and disabled cows and calves that need sustained attention and medical care. Her organisation has described the shelter as a sanctuary where animals that might otherwise have little chance of survival can receive food, treatment and lifelong care.
Bruning’s relationship with the animals also challenges the purely economic way in which cattle are sometimes viewed. Her mission has focused particularly on cows that are no longer useful commercially or have been abandoned because of age, illness or disability. Over the years, she has repeatedly described the cows under her care as her family. Earlier accounts of her work documented separate arrangements for animals requiring special attention, including blind and severely injured cows.
Running such a large sanctuary has required enormous financial commitment. Bruning has used her own resources, including income connected with property in Germany, to help sustain the work. Earlier reports documented substantial monthly expenses for fodder, medicines, workers and other necessities, while her family’s money also helped establish the gaushala. The scale of the operation has changed over time, but the underlying principle has remained the same: animals in distress should not be abandoned simply because caring for them is difficult or expensive.
Her decades of work eventually received national recognition. In 2019, the Government of India honoured Friederike Irina Bruning with the Padma Shri for Social Work–Animal Welfare. The official Padma Awards announcement listed her as a foreign recipient from Germany in the field of animal welfare. By the time the honour arrived, the young traveller who had entered India in 1978 had already spent decades building a life around Gau Seva.
But Bruning’s story is much bigger than an award. For Go Spiritual News Magazine & App, her journey represents a powerful example of what spirituality can become when inner awakening moves beyond personal experience and expresses itself through seva, compassion and responsibility towards other living beings.
Spirituality is often associated with meditation, prayer, scriptures, pilgrimages, gurus and religious practices. These may all play an important role in a person’s spiritual journey, but the deeper question is what that journey ultimately does to the individual. Does spirituality make a person more compassionate? Does it reduce selfishness and ego? Does it make the suffering of another living being more difficult to ignore? Does inner transformation eventually become service?
Bruning’s life offers a compelling answer. She came to India searching for spiritual knowledge, but her spiritual journey eventually became inseparable from caring for living beings that could give her little or nothing in return. Her work shows that seva itself can become a form of spiritual practice.
There is a particularly important lesson in her care for sick, old and disabled animals. Compassion is easy to speak about when another living being is useful to us. Its real test comes when that being is injured, weak, ageing, abandoned or incapable of giving anything back. Caring for such animals is not a transaction. It is an expression of the belief that life possesses value beyond economic usefulness.
Her journey also gives a deeper meaning to the Indian spiritual principles of Daya, Karuna, Ahimsa and Seva. These ideas become meaningful not merely when they are discussed in scriptures or spiritual gatherings, but when they influence how human beings treat the vulnerable. Feeding a hungry animal, nursing an injured cow, giving shelter to an abandoned creature and refusing to turn away from suffering can themselves become profound spiritual acts.
At a time when spirituality is sometimes presented through claims of supernatural miracles, material blessings and instant solutions, Bruning’s life presents a very different kind of miracle. The miracle is not that something supernatural happened around her. The transformation happened within her: a young traveller’s search for spiritual meaning evolved into a commitment that has touched the lives of thousands of animals.
That transformation carries an important message. The real measure of spirituality may not be the extraordinary things a person claims to perform, but the compassion that spirituality creates within them and the good that compassion creates around them.
Bruning’s life is also an extraordinary story of crossing cultures and borders. Born thousands of kilometres away in Germany, she found her spiritual home in Braj and chose to devote much of her adult life to animals in Mathura. Her journey demonstrates that compassion does not belong to one nationality, culture or geography. When suffering is recognised and responded to with love, seva becomes a universal language.
From a 20-year-old traveller arriving in India in 1978 to Sudevi Dasi of Radha Kund, from rescuing one injured calf to caring for thousands of vulnerable cows, and from a personal search for spiritual meaning to receiving the Padma Shri for animal welfare, Friederike Irina Bruning’s life has travelled an extraordinary path.
Her story ultimately reminds us that spirituality does not have to announce itself through grand words or spectacular claims. Sometimes it can be seen most clearly in a simple decision repeated every day for decades: to see suffering, to care, and to serve.
For Go Spiritual, that may be the most inspiring message of Padma Shri Friederike Irina Bruning’s journey: when spirituality awakens compassion, compassion becomes seva; and when seva becomes a way of life, spirituality moves from belief into action.
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Why Well-Wishers Are More Important Than Friends in Life
Friendship gives us companionship, but a genuine well-wisher gives us something even more valuable—the courage to tell us the truth, the wisdom to guide us when we are wrong and the happiness to see us grow even when there is nothing in it for them.
By Sonu Tyagi, Founder, Go Spiritual & Approach Entertainment
We spend much of our lives looking for friends. From childhood and college to our professional and social lives, friendship is considered one of the most important human relationships. We celebrate friendships, remember old friends, make new ones and often measure the richness of our social lives by the number of people around us. But as we move through success, failure, relationships, disappointments and changing circumstances, life gradually teaches us something deeper: having many friends is not nearly as important as having a few genuine well-wishers.
A friend and a well-wisher are not necessarily the same person. A true friend will naturally be a well-wisher, but everyone we call a friend may not genuinely wish the best for us. At the same time, someone who is not particularly close to us may sincerely want us to succeed, remain healthy, make the right decisions, overcome our weaknesses and become a better human being. That distinction becomes increasingly important as we grow older.
A friend may enjoy spending time with you, but a well-wisher cares about what happens to you when the good time is over. A friend may make you comfortable, while a well-wisher may sometimes make you uncomfortable by telling you something you need to hear. A friend may agree with you because disagreement could disturb the relationship, while a genuine well-wisher may disagree precisely because your life matters more to them than your temporary approval. That is why I believe genuine well-wishers are among the greatest blessings we can receive in life.
Most friendships begin because two people have something in common. We study together, work together, live nearby, share interests, enjoy similar conversations or simply like each other’s company. There is nothing wrong with this. Human beings need companionship, belonging and emotional connection. But circumstances change. School ends, jobs change, people move to different cities, financial situations improve or deteriorate, people marry, have families, change professions, become successful or go through difficult periods. Many relationships naturally become distant because the circumstances that created them no longer exist.
A genuine well-wisher can survive these changes because goodwill is not entirely dependent on convenience. Someone may not speak to you every day and still sincerely pray for your happiness and success. Someone may meet you only occasionally and still give you the right advice when you need it. Someone may not attend every celebration in your life but may quietly stand beside you during your most difficult period. We should therefore never confuse the frequency of communication with the depth of someone’s goodwill. Sometimes the person constantly around us is not our greatest well-wisher, while someone sitting hundreds of kilometres away may genuinely want the best for us.
Perhaps the greatest value of a well-wisher becomes visible when we are wrong. When everything is going well, almost everyone around us can appear supportive. The real test comes when we are making a mistake. We may be taking a wrong professional decision, damaging an important relationship, becoming arrogant after success, developing an unhealthy habit, behaving unfairly towards someone or simply failing to see our own weaknesses. At that moment, what kind of person do we really need? Someone who tells us that everything we are doing is right because that is what we want to hear, or someone who has the courage to tell us, with compassion, that we may be making a mistake?
The second person may temporarily annoy us, but that person may actually be far more valuable to our life. One of the dangers of success is that the number of people agreeing with us can increase while the number of people willing to correct us decreases. The more successful, wealthy, famous, powerful or influential someone becomes, the more important genuine well-wishers become. Flattery feels pleasant, but it rarely helps us grow. A person who always agrees with you may protect the relationship, but a person who respectfully corrects you may sometimes protect your life.
Another important test of a well-wisher is how they respond to your success. Human relationships are complicated by comparison. Two people may genuinely like each other and still experience jealousy when one begins moving ahead. We compare careers, income, houses, relationships, recognition, social status and achievements. Social media has intensified this tendency because we are constantly exposed to carefully selected versions of other people’s lives.
A genuine well-wisher rises above this competition. When something wonderful happens to you, they do not immediately think, “Why not me?” They are capable of saying, “I am genuinely happy for you.” That sentence may sound simple, but being truly happy for another person’s success requires considerable emotional maturity. The person who celebrates your success without feeling diminished by it is precious. Someone who wants you to become bigger without fearing that they will become smaller deserves a special place in your life. A genuine well-wisher does not compete with your light; they are happy to see you shine.
Life also reveals people when our circumstances change. There are periods when the phone keeps ringing, invitations arrive, people want meetings and everyone seems interested in being associated with us. Our ideas suddenly appear brilliant, our presence becomes desirable and many people want to be part of our world. Then circumstances can change. A business may fail, a career may slow down, a position may disappear, fame may fade, money may become difficult, health may deteriorate or a personal crisis may arrive. Suddenly, some phones stop ringing.
These periods can be painful, but they are also deeply educational. Difficulty has an extraordinary ability to reveal the nature of relationships. When you have something people want, it can be difficult to distinguish affection from interest. When you have very little to offer, the distinction becomes much clearer. A genuine well-wisher does not calculate your value according to your designation, bank balance, influence, fame or usefulness. They remember the human being behind all these temporary identities. Success introduces us to many people; difficult times often introduce us to the people who genuinely care.
It is equally important to understand that a well-wisher may not necessarily be someone we traditionally describe as a friend. Some of our greatest well-wishers may be our parents, teachers, mentors, colleagues, seniors, siblings, spouses or people with whom we do not share a conventionally close friendship. There may even be someone who regularly disagrees with us but sincerely wants us to do well. We should therefore stop evaluating every meaningful relationship only through labels. Instead of merely asking, “Who are my friends?”, perhaps we should occasionally ask, “Who genuinely wants the best for me?” The answer may surprise us.
There is also a deeper spiritual dimension to this idea. Much of our suffering in relationships comes from possession and expectation. We expect people to call us, remember us, support us, agree with us, invite us, praise us and behave according to our expectations. When they do not, we feel disappointed or hurt. Spiritual growth gradually teaches us that love does not always have to possess. Sometimes the purest form of affection is simply wanting another human being to be peaceful, healthy, successful and happy, even when we receive nothing from their happiness.
This is where an ordinary relationship can evolve into something much deeper. A relationship based primarily on expectation keeps asking, “What am I getting from you?” A relationship based on genuine goodwill begins asking, “Am I bringing something good into your life?” That movement from expectation towards goodwill is one of the most beautiful forms of inner transformation.
A genuine well-wisher also does not encourage our weaknesses simply to keep us happy. There is a mistaken belief that people who support us should support everything we do. That is not genuine support. If someone encourages our anger, arrogance, irresponsibility, dishonesty, addiction or destructive behaviour simply because they want to remain on our good side, they may actually be contributing to our problems. A genuine well-wisher understands the difference between supporting a person and supporting that person’s mistakes. They can stand beside us without justifying everything we do.
This is particularly important for our psychological and emotional growth. Sometimes we need reassurance. Sometimes we need encouragement. Sometimes we need rest, professional help or simply somebody who listens without judging us. But there are also times when we need a trustworthy person to hold a mirror in front of us. Someone who helps us see ourselves more clearly can contribute more to our growth than dozens of people who simply applaud us.
We should also be careful not to judge people’s intentions merely by the sweetness of their words. The person who praises us may not always be our well-wisher, and the person who criticises us may not necessarily be our enemy. Criticism can certainly come from jealousy, bitterness or negativity, and we need the wisdom to recognise that. But constructive criticism from someone who genuinely wants us to improve should not automatically be rejected merely because it hurts our ego. Spiritual maturity requires us to examine intention. Was this person trying to humiliate me, or were they trying to help me see something I could not see myself? Sometimes one honest sentence from a genuine well-wisher can save us from years of unnecessary difficulty.
There is, however, an even more important question than identifying our own well-wishers: for whom are we a genuine well-wisher? Spirituality should never be only about what we receive from relationships. It should make us examine what we contribute to them. We all want people who celebrate our success, but do we genuinely celebrate theirs? We want people who remain with us when we struggle, but do we remain when they struggle? We want people who tell us the truth, but do we have the courage to speak truth with compassion? We want people who do not use us, but are our own relationships free from calculation? We want others to forgive our imperfections, but how forgiving are we of theirs?
Spirituality begins when we stop using every teaching to evaluate other people and start applying it to ourselves. Instead of spending our entire lives searching for the perfect friend, perhaps we should first try to become a genuine well-wisher to the people around us. Wish good for people without expecting something in return. Help when you can. Correct without humiliating. Celebrate without comparing. Support without controlling. Forgive without constantly reminding someone of their mistakes. And sometimes, simply pray that another human being finds happiness and peace, even if you are no longer an important part of their life.
As we grow older, the number of people around us becomes less important than the quality of their intentions. We do not need hundreds of people calling themselves our friends. Even a handful of people who sincerely want us to remain healthy, peaceful, grounded, successful and good human beings can be an extraordinary blessing.
We should protect such relationships. We should not take genuine well-wishers for granted merely because they are not constantly visible. We should not lose someone who genuinely cares about us simply because they once told us an uncomfortable truth. And we should never confuse constant praise with loyalty, social proximity with affection, networking with friendship or popularity with meaningful human connection.
When you find someone who is genuinely happy when you succeed, concerned when you are going wrong, present when circumstances become difficult and honest enough to correct you without trying to control you, value that person. Friends can make our journey enjoyable, but genuine well-wishers can help make our journey meaningful, wiser and better.
Ultimately, life is not about collecting the maximum number of relationships. It is about discovering a few relationships in which there is truth without cruelty, support without selfishness, affection without possession and goodwill without expectation. Perhaps one of life’s greatest blessings is not simply having people who enjoy being with us, but having people who genuinely want something beautiful for us even when they have absolutely nothing to gain from it.
And perhaps an even greater spiritual achievement is becoming that kind of person for someone else.
— Sonu Tyagi
Founder, Go Spiritual & Approach Entertainment
Visit at www.sonutyagi.com & www.approachentertainment.com
Sonu Tyagi is an award-winning writer, director and producer, and Founder of Go Spiritual and Approach Entertainment. With over two decades of experience in media, journalism, advertising, public relations, films and entertainment, he has built a multidisciplinary career in communications and creative industries. Through Approach Entertainment, he works across celebrity management, film productions, advertising, film marketing and events. Through Go Spiritual, Tyagi promotes spirituality, compassion, humanity, mental wellness, vegetarianism, non-violence and conscious living. He believes real spirituality is about inner transformation—developing self-awareness, resilience, peace and compassion while becoming a better and more responsible human being.
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The Greatest Miracle of Spirituality Is Not What Happens Around You, But What Happens Within You
By Sonu Tyagi, Founder, Go Spiritual & Approach Entertainment
Whenever we talk about spirituality in India, the conversation very quickly turns towards miracles. We hear stories about a spiritual person predicting the future, producing something mysteriously, curing an illness, bringing wealth, solving a business problem or making an impossible situation suddenly possible. Television, social media and even everyday conversations have helped create an image in which the greatness of a spiritual person is often measured by the number of supernatural stories associated with them. The more unbelievable the story, the greater the fascination.
I believe this approach has distracted us from the real meaning of spirituality. Instead of constantly asking, “What miracles can this spiritual person perform?”, we should be asking a far more important question: What miracle has spirituality performed within this person? Has anger turned into compassion? Has greed become contentment? Has fear become courage? Has ego become humility? Has hatred become understanding? Has a restless mind found peace? Has suffering created wisdom instead of bitterness? Has spiritual awakening made that person more sensitive towards the pain of human beings, animals and nature? These, to me, are the real miracles of spirituality.
Getting money unexpectedly is not necessarily a spiritual miracle. Becoming successful in business is not enlightenment. Getting a promotion, buying a bigger house, becoming famous, winning a dispute or seeing a material wish fulfilled may certainly make us happy, but these things should not become our definition of spirituality. If spirituality is reduced to a system in which we pray because we want money, perform a ritual because we want success or follow a spiritual personality because we expect our material problems to disappear, then spirituality becomes another transaction. We are effectively saying: I have prayed, now give me what I want.
The deeper purpose of spirituality is not to make the external world permanently behave according to our wishes. The real purpose is to create such a transformation within us that we develop the wisdom, strength and balance to deal with a world that will never completely behave according to our wishes.
Life will always remain uncertain. Money comes and goes. Careers rise and fall. Relationships change. The body ages. People disappoint us. Success can become failure, and sometimes what appears to be failure can later become the beginning of something meaningful. Spirituality does not guarantee that these realities will disappear. Its deeper gift is that something changes inside us, enabling us to face them differently.
Think of a person who once collapsed emotionally after every setback but gradually develops resilience. Think of someone who carried anger for years and eventually learns to forgive. Think of a person who constantly compared himself with others but discovers contentment. Think of someone whose mind was controlled by fear and anxiety but who gradually learns to observe thoughts instead of becoming a prisoner of every thought. Think of a wealthy or powerful person who finally begins to see dignity in people who can offer him nothing in return. Are these transformations any less miraculous than the supernatural stories we repeatedly celebrate? I believe they are far more meaningful.
The human mind can become its own prison. Ego, jealousy, insecurity, resentment, greed, fear and endless desire can make even a materially successful person deeply unhappy. Real spirituality begins to break these walls from within. The miracle is not that the world suddenly starts obeying you. The miracle is that you no longer require the entire world to obey you in order to remain peaceful.
This is also where spirituality and psychology can have a meaningful conversation. They are not the same thing, and they should not be confused with each other. Modern psychology works through scientific knowledge, research, professional practice and evidence-based approaches. Spiritual traditions have explored the human mind through meditation, contemplation, philosophy, ethical living and inner inquiry. Spirituality should never be presented as a substitute for professional mental-health treatment when such treatment is required. At the same time, some of the deepest spiritual questions are also questions about the human mind: Why do I suffer? Why am I so attached? Why does desire never completely satisfy me? Why do I fear losing what I possess? Why does somebody else’s success disturb me? Can I observe my thoughts without automatically reacting to them? Who am I when my ego, position, wealth and social identity are removed?
Meditation without emotional honesty can become an escape. Prayer without self-examination can become only a ritual. Knowledge without compassion can become another form of ego. Real spirituality should make us psychologically more aware, emotionally more mature and internally more responsible.
Unfortunately, spirituality today is often presented as entertainment. A video claiming that someone performed a supernatural miracle may attract millions of views. A story about a person spending decades serving the poor, overcoming hatred, developing extraordinary inner stability or quietly helping people without seeking publicity may attract far less attention. This tells us something about the audience as well. We demand spectacle, so spectacle is supplied.
When we talk about saints, spiritual teachers and genuinely evolved human beings, why are we so interested in whether they could perform supernatural acts? Why do we not ask how they dealt with their own ego? How did they react when someone insulted them? How did they remain compassionate during suffering? How did they treat people who disagreed with them? How did they behave with the poor, the powerless and those who could offer them nothing? What did they contribute to humanity? How many lives became better because they existed?
The true measure of a spiritual person should not be the miracles attributed to them, but the humanity reflected through their life.
For me, spirituality and humanity cannot be separated. If years of prayer, meditation, pilgrimage, scripture reading and religious activity make someone more arrogant, intolerant, hateful or obsessed with superiority, then something fundamental has been missed. If I claim to love God but cannot feel compassion for another human being because of their religion, caste, class, language or social position, I must question what my spirituality has actually achieved. If I worship divine forms but remain completely insensitive to the suffering of living beings around me, I must examine the depth of that worship.
A truly spiritual person should gradually become more compassionate, humble, honest, forgiving and responsible. Spirituality should expand our humanity, not reduce it.
This is why we must also distinguish genuine spirituality from the business that is sometimes conducted in its name. India has an extraordinary spiritual heritage, but every person wearing religious clothes, giving themselves a spiritual title or gathering a large following cannot automatically be considered spiritually evolved. There are people who exploit fear, grief, illness, financial difficulty and emotional vulnerability. Some promise instant solutions to every problem. Some claim supernatural powers. Some turn faith into personality worship. Some discourage questions and encourage complete dependence on themselves. Others use religion and supposed divine authority to accumulate money, influence or unquestioned power.
A robe does not automatically create wisdom. A huge following does not prove enlightenment. Millions of views on social media do not establish spiritual depth. Extraordinary claims should not become true merely because they are presented in the language of religion.
Questioning such claims does not mean rejecting faith. In fact, questioning exploitation can help protect genuine faith and spirituality. A true spiritual teacher should make people more conscious, more compassionate, more courageous and less controlled by fear. A teacher should help people discover their inner strength rather than make them permanently dependent on another human being. Spirituality should liberate the mind, not capture it.
Religion itself can offer community, tradition, discipline, philosophy, moral guidance and a connection with something greater than our individual existence. But religion without humanity can become an empty structure. We should ask ourselves a simple question: What is the purpose of searching for God if, during that search, we stop seeing the human being standing beside us?
Feeding someone who is hungry, supporting someone going through emotional pain, caring for elderly parents, protecting an animal from cruelty, forgiving when revenge would be easier, refusing corruption when dishonesty would be profitable, remaining humble after achieving success and helping someone without announcing it to the world may appear to be ordinary acts. Spiritually, they can be extraordinary.
Perhaps we need to redefine what we call a miracle. When an angry person becomes peaceful, that is a miracle. When someone survives a devastating failure without losing hope, that is a miracle. When a person carrying hatred for years finally learns to forgive, that is a miracle. When wealth stops controlling someone’s identity, that is a miracle. When success creates humility rather than arrogance, that is a miracle. When suffering produces compassion instead of cruelty, that is a miracle. When someone discovers meaning after feeling completely lost, that is a miracle. When a person begins to feel another living being’s pain as his own, that is a spiritual miracle.
Most of us begin our relationship with God through requests. Give me success. Give me money. Give me health. Give me this relationship. Remove this problem. Defeat my enemy. Fulfil my desire. There is nothing unnatural about asking for help during difficult times. We are human. But perhaps spiritual maturity begins when the nature of our prayer starts changing.
Instead of only asking, “Change my circumstances,” we begin asking, “Give me the wisdom to understand my circumstances.” Instead of saying, “Remove every difficulty,” we begin saying, “Give me the strength to face difficulty.” Instead of asking, “Give me more,” perhaps we ask, “Reduce my greed.” Instead of asking God to make everybody behave according to our wishes, perhaps we say, “Help me understand myself.” And instead of constantly demanding, “Show me a miracle,” perhaps our prayer becomes, “Create the miracle within me.”
That, for me, is the journey from simply expecting things from spirituality to actually experiencing spiritual transformation.
The world does not need more performances of spirituality. It needs more spiritually transformed human beings. We do not need spirituality that promises to magically fill our bank accounts; we need spirituality that enriches our consciousness. We do not need spirituality that makes us obsessed with supernatural powers; we need spirituality that gives us the inner power to face reality. We do not need spirituality that creates superiority and division; we need spirituality that makes us recognise our shared humanity.
The greatest spiritual miracle is not when something impossible happens outside you. The greatest miracle is when something beautiful, compassionate, courageous and conscious happens within you—and that inner transformation changes the way you live, think, love, respond to suffering and treat the world around you.
That is real spirituality. And that is the miracle worth searching for.
— Sonu Tyagi
Founder, Go Spiritual & Approach Entertainment
Sonu Tyagi is an award-winning writer, director and producer, and the Founder of Go Spiritual and Approach Entertainment. With more than two decades of experience across media, journalism, advertising, public relations, films and entertainment, he has increasingly focused his work on spirituality, mental wellness, humanity, compassion and conscious living. Through Go Spiritual, Tyagi advocates a practical approach to spirituality that goes beyond rituals and external miracles, focusing instead on inner transformation, self-awareness, resilience, compassion and becoming a better human being. He also heads Approach Entertainment, an award-winning company working across celebrity and talent management, film productions, advertising and corporate films, film marketing, events and entertainment marketing.
Visit at www.sonutyagi.com & www.approachentertainment.com
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अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट ने जानी-मानी भारतीय शास्त्रीय गायिका मौसमी चक्रवर्ती को किया साइन
मुंबई: अवॉर्ड-विनिंग सेलिब्रिटी एवं टैलेंट मैनेजमेंट, फिल्म प्रोडक्शन, एडवरटाइजिंग एवं कॉरपोरेट फिल्म प्रोडक्शन, फिल्म मार्केटिंग, इवेंट्स और एंटरटेनमेंट मार्केटिंग कंपनी अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट ने जानी-मानी भारतीय शास्त्रीय गायिका मौसमी चक्रवर्ती को साइन करने की घोषणा की है। इस नई साझेदारी के साथ मौसमी चक्रवर्ती अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट के बढ़ते आर्टिस्ट और टैलेंट मैनेजमेंट पोर्टफोलियो से जुड़ गई हैं।
इस साझेदारी के तहत अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट मौसमी चक्रवर्ती के आर्टिस्ट मैनेजमेंट, लाइव कॉन्सर्ट, म्यूजिक प्रोजेक्ट्स, सहयोग, ब्रांड एसोसिएशन, पब्लिक अपीयरेंस और एंटरटेनमेंट से जुड़े अवसरों पर काम करेगा। वहीं ग्रुप की अवॉर्ड-विनिंग पी आर , डिजिटल और इंटीग्रेटेड कम्युनिकेशन्स एजेंसी अप्रोच कम्युनिकेशंस उनकी मीडिया पोजिशनिंग, पब्लिसिटी, डिजिटल स्ट्रैटेजी और कम्युनिकेशन की जिम्मेदारी संभालेगी। इस साझेदारी का उद्देश्य भारत में मौसमी की मौजूदगी को और मजबूत करना तथा उनके संगीत के लिए अंतरराष्ट्रीय स्तर पर भी नए अवसर तलाशना है।
भारतीय शास्त्रीय संगीत की समृद्ध परंपरा से जुड़ी मौसमी चक्रवर्ती के पास वर्षों की संगीत साधना, बेहतरीन प्रशिक्षण और मंच पर प्रस्तुति देने का लंबा अनुभव है। उनका जन्म एक संगीत प्रेमी परिवार में हुआ और उन्होंने बहुत कम उम्र में अपने पिता श्री पी. सी. चक्रवर्ती से शास्त्रीय गायन सीखना शुरू किया। उनके पिता दिल्ली घराने के प्रसिद्ध सारंगी वादक स्वर्गीय उस्ताद सगीरुद्दीन खान के शिष्य थे। बाद में मौसमी ने सीधे उस्ताद सगीरुद्दीन खान से भी 1993 में उनके निधन तक संगीत की शिक्षा ली।
मौसमी की संगीत यात्रा को आगे बढ़ाने में स्वर्गीय संगीत गुरु पंडित समरेश चौधरी की भी महत्वपूर्ण भूमिका रही। वे भारत रत्न पंडित रविशंकर के शिष्य और रामपुर-सेनिया घराने के जाने-माने गायक थे। मौसमी ने 2018 तक उनसे नियमित रूप से संगीत की शिक्षा ली। इसके अलावा उन्होंने मुंबई में प्रसिद्ध संवादिनी वादक स्वर्गीय पंडित मनोहर चिमोटे और शाहजहांपुर घराने के प्रसिद्ध सरोद वादक पंडित जयदीप घोष से भी एडवांस तालीम हासिल की।
मौसमी चक्रवर्ती की उपलब्धियां शास्त्रीय संगीत के क्षेत्र में उनकी मजबूत पहचान को दर्शाती हैं। उन्होंने आचार्य विनोबा भावे विश्वविद्यालय से संगीत में फर्स्ट क्लास ऑनर्स के साथ ग्रेजुएशन किया है। उन्हें 1998 से 2000 तक भारत सरकार के मानव संसाधन विभाग की नेशनल स्कॉलरशिप भी मिली। वर्ष 1998 में उन्होंने ऑल इंडिया रेडियो की राष्ट्रीय स्तर की संगीत प्रतियोगिता में खयाल गायन में पहला पुरस्कार जीता।
मौसमी ऑल इंडिया रेडियो मुंबई की ग्रेडेड आर्टिस्ट और नियमित कलाकार हैं। उन्हें नवरस रिकॉर्ड्स मुंबई के प्रतिष्ठित नवरस अवॉर्ड से भी सम्मानित किया जा चुका है। इसके अलावा उन्हें संस्कार भारती से भी सम्मान मिला है।
अपने संगीत सफर के दौरान मौसमी ने देश के कई प्रमुख संगीत समारोहों और मंचों पर प्रस्तुति दी है। इनमें मुंबई में स्वर्गीय प्रसिद्ध तबला वादक डॉ. अबान ई. मिस्त्री द्वारा सह-स्थापित संस्था स्वर-साधना समिति का कॉन्सर्ट, सॉल्ट लेक सिटी म्यूजिक कॉन्फ्रेंस, कोलकाता; नवरंग म्यूजिक कॉन्सर्ट, कोलकाता; संगीत पियासी, कोलकाता; उत्तरपाड़ा म्यूजिक फेस्टिवल, कोलकाता; मुंबई में संगात एवं सप्तक के कॉन्सर्ट; और गुजरात में सुरश्री का कॉन्सर्ट शामिल हैं। इसके अलावा भी उन्होंने कई शास्त्रीय संगीत मंचों पर अपनी प्रस्तुति दी है।
शास्त्रीय संगीत जगत में उनकी पहचान का एक और महत्वपूर्ण उदाहरण तब सामने आया, जब डॉ. अबान ई. मिस्त्री ने मौसमी चक्रवर्ती को मुंबई में आयोजित सीनियर कैटेगरी की शास्त्रीय गायन प्रतियोगिता में जज के रूप में आमंत्रित किया।
अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट के साथ अपनी नई साझेदारी पर मौसमी चक्रवर्ती ने कहा, “भारतीय शास्त्रीय संगीत बचपन से ही मेरे जीवन का सबसे महत्वपूर्ण हिस्सा रहा है। मुझे ऐसे महान गुरुओं से सीखने का सौभाग्य मिला, जिन्होंने मुझे केवल संगीत ही नहीं सिखाया, बल्कि अनुशासन और हमारी संगीत परंपराओं का सम्मान करना भी सिखाया। मैं अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट और सोनू त्यागी के साथ जुड़कर बहुत खुश हूं। मैं अपनी शास्त्रीय परंपरा से जुड़े रहते हुए अपने संगीत को ज्यादा से ज्यादा लोगों तक पहुंचाना चाहती हूं।”
अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट ग्रुप के फाउंडर एवं डायरेक्टर सोनू त्यागी ने कहा, “मौसमी चक्रवर्ती एक ऐसी कलाकार हैं, जिनके संगीत में सच्चाई, गहराई और भारतीय शास्त्रीय संगीत की मजबूत नींव है। आज संगीत अलग-अलग प्लेटफॉर्म के जरिए दुनिया भर के लोगों तक पहुंच रहा है। ऐसे समय में भारतीय शास्त्रीय संगीत के बेहतरीन कलाकारों को उनकी कला की मूल भावना से समझौता किए बिना नई पीढ़ी और नए दर्शकों तक पहुंचाने की बहुत बड़ी संभावना है। हमें मौसमी का अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट में स्वागत करते हुए बेहद खुशी हो रही है।”
उन्होंने आगे कहा, “हमारी योजना केवल पारंपरिक आर्टिस्ट मैनेजमेंट तक सीमित नहीं रहेगी। हम मौसमी की म्यूजिक, कॉन्सर्ट्स, फेस्टिवल्स, डिजिटल प्लेटफॉर्म्स, सांस्कृतिक सहयोग, ब्रांड्स और अंतरराष्ट्रीय अवसरों में मजबूत और लंबे समय की पहचान बनाने पर काम करेंगे। अप्रोच कम्युनिकेशंस PR और डिजिटल कैंपेन के जरिए उनके संगीत और उनकी संगीत यात्रा को ज्यादा से ज्यादा लोगों तक पहुंचाएगा।”
यह साझेदारी ऐसे समय में हुई है, जब अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट म्यूजिक, आर्टिस्ट्स, ओरिजिनल कंटेंट और लाइव एंटरटेनमेंट के क्षेत्र में अपना काम और बढ़ा रहा है। कंपनी मौसमी के लिए शास्त्रीय संगीत के कॉन्सर्ट्स, म्यूजिक फेस्टिवल्स, डिजिटल परफॉर्मेंस, ओरिजिनल म्यूजिक रिलीज, संगीतकारों और दूसरे कलाकारों के साथ सहयोग के साथ-साथ राष्ट्रीय और अंतरराष्ट्रीय सांस्कृतिक मंचों पर नए अवसर तलाशेगी। इसका उद्देश्य भारतीय शास्त्रीय संगीत की गहराई को आज के दर्शकों से जोड़ना और इस महान संगीत परंपरा को नई पीढ़ियों, नए प्लेटफॉर्म और दुनिया के अलग-अलग हिस्सों तक पहुंचाना है।
सोनू त्यागी अवॉर्ड-विनिंग लेखक, निर्देशक, निर्माता, गीतकार और मीडिया एंटरप्रेन्योर हैं। उन्होंने साइकोलॉजी, एडवरटाइजिंग मैनेजमेंट, जर्नलिज्म और फिल्ममेकिंग की प्रोफेशनल पढ़ाई की है। अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट ग्रुप शुरू करने से पहले उन्होंने प्रमुख एडवरटाइजिंग एजेंसियों और मीडिया संस्थानों के साथ काम किया। उन्होंने आध्यात्मिक फिल्म और वेब सीरीज ‘टू ग्रेट मास्टर्स’ को क्रिएट और को-प्रोड्यूस किया है। इसमें वरिष्ठ अभिनेता राकेश बेदी हैं और यह स्वामी विवेकानंद एवं परमहंस योगानंद की शिक्षाओं पर आधारित है। सोनू त्यागी और अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट अंतरराष्ट्रीय फीचर फिल्म ‘लिबरेशन’ को भी को-प्रोड्यूस कर रहे हैं। इसके अलावा सोनू त्यागी हिंदी व्यंग्य कॉमेडी फिल्म ‘कैंप डिसेंट’ के क्रिएटिव प्रोड्यूसर हैं, जिसमें बृजेंद्र काला, राजपाल यादव, सारा खान और हेमंत पांडे प्रमुख भूमिकाओं में हैं।
अप्रोच एंटरटेनमेंट को सेलिब्रिटी एवं टैलेंट मैनेजमेंट, फिल्म प्रोडक्शन, एडवरटाइजिंग एवं कॉरपोरेट फिल्म प्रोडक्शन, फिल्म मार्केटिंग, इवेंट्स और एंटरटेनमेंट मार्केटिंग के क्षेत्र में दो दशकों से ज्यादा का अनुभव है। ग्रुप में अप्रोच कम्युनिकेशंस, एक अवॉर्ड-विनिंग पी आर , डिजिटल और इंटीग्रेटेड कम्युनिकेशन्स एजेंसी; अप्रोच बॉलीवुड, एक बॉलीवुड एवं एंटरटेनमेंट न्यूज़वायर, पोर्टल एवं ऐप; और गो स्पिरिचुअल, अध्यात्म, परोपकार, मेंटल हेल्थ एवं वेलनेस, आयुर्वेद एवं ऑर्गेनिक लिविंग, स्पिरिचुअल टूरिज्म, मीडिया और सामाजिक कार्यों से जुड़ा स्पिरिचुअल एवं वेलनेस संगठन भी शामिल हैं।
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How Bal Gangadhar Tilak Transformed Ganeshotsav into a Movement for National Unity
By Sonu Tyagi, Founder, Go Spiritual
Lord Ganesha is worshipped as the remover of obstacles, the giver of wisdom and the symbol of auspicious beginnings. Ganesh Chaturthi should therefore inspire wisdom, humility, discipline, compassion and inner purification. Unfortunately, much of what we witness today, particularly during Ganpati Visarjan, appears to have moved far away from these spiritual values. What was intended to unite society has increasingly become a competition over who can install the biggest Ganpati idol, organise the grandest procession, spend the most money and create the loudest noise.
There is an important historical distinction that must first be understood. Lokmanya Bal Gangadhar Tilak did not begin the worship of Lord Ganesha or invent the ancient spiritual practice of idol immersion. Lord Ganesha had been worshipped privately in Indian homes and temples for centuries. What Tilak did in the 1890s was transform the largely private Ganesh Chaturthi celebration into an organised public festival, popularly known as Sarvajanik Ganeshotsav.
India was under British rule at the time, political gatherings faced restrictions and society remained divided by caste, class and community. Tilak understood that a public celebration centred on Lord Ganesha could bring people together on a common cultural platform. Public Ganeshotsav celebrations became spaces for patriotic speeches, cultural programmes, social awareness, community interaction and discussions about India’s freedom. The larger purpose was to awaken national consciousness, strengthen unity and mobilise people against colonial rule.
Tilak used the public Ganesh festival as a powerful means of national awakening. He did not create it as a competition for gigantic idols, deafening sound systems, vulgar dancing, political promotion or the display of money and power. Its purpose was unity, but today it often becomes competition. Its purpose was national awakening, but today it is frequently reduced to commercial promotion. Its purpose was meaningful public participation, but today it is too often associated with noise, obstruction, extravagance and spectacle.
We must therefore ask an uncomfortable but necessary question: Is this spirituality, or has it become drama?
During many immersion processions, traditional prayers and devotional songs are pushed aside by inappropriate film songs, vulgar remixes and meaningless music played at unbearable volumes. People dance as if they are participating in a commercial street show rather than respectfully bidding farewell to a sacred form of Lord Ganesha. Roads are blocked for hours, hospital patients suffer, senior citizens are disturbed, students cannot study, animals become terrified and local residents are forced to endure the celebration whether they wish to participate or not.
Can an activity that causes suffering to others honestly be called devotion? A celebration does not become spiritual merely because the name of God has been attached to it. If our way of celebrating Lord Ganesha creates obstacles for thousands of people, what message are we giving to the God we worship as the remover of obstacles?
Then there is the growing competition to create increasingly enormous idols. Every mandal appears determined to prove that its Ganpati is taller, grander and more expensive than the others. But is the physical size of an idol a measure of the depth of our faith? Does a fifty-foot idol represent greater devotion than a small clay Ganpati worshipped with honesty in an ordinary home? God cannot be measured in feet, decorations, expenditure, crowd size or social-media views. A small idol accompanied by sincere devotion is infinitely more spiritual than a gigantic idol surrounded by ego, noise and publicity.
The environmental consequences are equally troubling. Idols made with Plaster of Paris, chemical paints and non-biodegradable materials can pollute seas, rivers and lakes. Plastic, thermocol, flowers, decorations and other waste are frequently left behind at immersion sites. We call our rivers sacred and then pollute them in the name of religion. We worship nature as divine and simultaneously damage it through our rituals. This contradiction cannot be defended as faith or tradition.
The present form of competitive, noisy and environmentally destructive Ganpati Visarjan must now stop. This does not mean that devotion to Lord Ganesha should stop, nor does it mean that Ganeshotsav itself should end. It means that the drama, competition, vulgarity, noise and pollution surrounding the celebration must end. We must preserve the spiritual essence while reforming practices that harm people, animals and nature.
Families and communities can worship small idols made from natural clay. Immersion can be conducted symbolically at home or in designated artificial ponds. Public mandals can organise peaceful prayers, meditation, devotional music, community meals, blood-donation camps, educational programmes, tree plantations, assistance for poor families and environmental initiatives. Instead of spending enormous amounts of money on decorations, DJs and sound systems, that money could educate underprivileged children, support hospitals, feed hungry people, help struggling families or protect animals.
Would Lord Ganesha not be happier if a poor child received an education in His name? Would feeding a hungry person not be a greater offering than playing loud music until midnight? Would planting and protecting trees not be more sacred than polluting the sea? Would helping a distressed family overcome its difficulties not honour the remover of obstacles more meaningfully than creating obstacles on public roads?
We must also reconsider our understanding of puja. Lighting a lamp, offering flowers, performing an aarti and reciting prayers can be beautiful expressions of devotion, but rituals without truth, compassion and ethical conduct are empty. God does not need our expensive decorations, deafening music or public display. God wants us to remove ego, greed, cruelty, dishonesty, anger and selfishness from our lives.
God does not love drama; God loves reality. God is not impressed by how loudly we announce our devotion. God sees how honestly and compassionately we live when there is no crowd watching us. Real spirituality is visible in how we treat our parents, families, employees, neighbours, animals and the environment. It is reflected in whether we earn ethically, speak truthfully, help vulnerable people and show kindness to every living being.
A person may perform an elaborate puja every day, but if that person exploits others, spreads hatred, behaves dishonestly or remains indifferent to suffering, the ritual has not created spirituality. Puja should transform our character. If it does not make us more truthful, peaceful and compassionate, it has remained only an external performance.
Lord Ganesha represents wisdom. If our celebration lacks wisdom, can we honestly call it Ganeshotsav? Lord Ganesha removes obstacles. If our processions create obstacles for ambulances, patients, elderly people, working citizens and entire neighbourhoods, are we truly honouring Him? Lord Ganesha represents auspiciousness. If our celebration pollutes water and frightens animals, what is auspicious about it?

Bal Gangadhar Tilak gave public Ganeshotsav a powerful social and national purpose suited to the needs of his time. India today is independent. Our responsibility is to give the festival a peaceful, compassionate, socially meaningful and environmentally responsible purpose for our time. Let Ganeshotsav continue as a celebration of devotion, wisdom, unity and service, but let the competition, vulgar songs, deafening noise, pollution and meaningless display end.
The most meaningful visarjan is not simply the immersion of an idol in water. The real visarjan is the immersion of our ego, anger, greed, dishonesty, hatred, pretence and selfishness. When these qualities dissolve within us, Lord Ganesha truly enters our hearts. That is devotion. That is spirituality. Everything else is merely drama.
Sonu Tyagi, Founder, Go Spiritual & Approach Entertainment
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Why Well-Wishers Are More Important Than Friends in Life
Friendship gives us companionship, but a genuine well-wisher gives us something even more valuable—the courage to tell us the truth, the wisdom to guide us when we are wrong and the happiness to see us grow even when there is nothing in it for them.
By Sonu Tyagi, Founder, Go Spiritual & Approach Entertainment
We spend much of our lives looking for friends. From childhood and college to our professional and social lives, friendship is considered one of the most important human relationships. We celebrate friendships, remember old friends, make new ones and often measure the richness of our social lives by the number of people around us. But as we move through success, failure, relationships, disappointments and changing circumstances, life gradually teaches us something deeper: having many friends is not nearly as important as having a few genuine well-wishers.
A friend and a well-wisher are not necessarily the same person. A true friend will naturally be a well-wisher, but everyone we call a friend may not genuinely wish the best for us. At the same time, someone who is not particularly close to us may sincerely want us to succeed, remain healthy, make the right decisions, overcome our weaknesses and become a better human being. That distinction becomes increasingly important as we grow older.
A friend may enjoy spending time with you, but a well-wisher cares about what happens to you when the good time is over. A friend may make you comfortable, while a well-wisher may sometimes make you uncomfortable by telling you something you need to hear. A friend may agree with you because disagreement could disturb the relationship, while a genuine well-wisher may disagree precisely because your life matters more to them than your temporary approval. That is why I believe genuine well-wishers are among the greatest blessings we can receive in life.
Most friendships begin because two people have something in common. We study together, work together, live nearby, share interests, enjoy similar conversations or simply like each other’s company. There is nothing wrong with this. Human beings need companionship, belonging and emotional connection. But circumstances change. School ends, jobs change, people move to different cities, financial situations improve or deteriorate, people marry, have families, change professions, become successful or go through difficult periods. Many relationships naturally become distant because the circumstances that created them no longer exist.
A genuine well-wisher can survive these changes because goodwill is not entirely dependent on convenience. Someone may not speak to you every day and still sincerely pray for your happiness and success. Someone may meet you only occasionally and still give you the right advice when you need it. Someone may not attend every celebration in your life but may quietly stand beside you during your most difficult period. We should therefore never confuse the frequency of communication with the depth of someone’s goodwill. Sometimes the person constantly around us is not our greatest well-wisher, while someone sitting hundreds of kilometres away may genuinely want the best for us.
Perhaps the greatest value of a well-wisher becomes visible when we are wrong. When everything is going well, almost everyone around us can appear supportive. The real test comes when we are making a mistake. We may be taking a wrong professional decision, damaging an important relationship, becoming arrogant after success, developing an unhealthy habit, behaving unfairly towards someone or simply failing to see our own weaknesses. At that moment, what kind of person do we really need? Someone who tells us that everything we are doing is right because that is what we want to hear, or someone who has the courage to tell us, with compassion, that we may be making a mistake?
The second person may temporarily annoy us, but that person may actually be far more valuable to our life. One of the dangers of success is that the number of people agreeing with us can increase while the number of people willing to correct us decreases. The more successful, wealthy, famous, powerful or influential someone becomes, the more important genuine well-wishers become. Flattery feels pleasant, but it rarely helps us grow. A person who always agrees with you may protect the relationship, but a person who respectfully corrects you may sometimes protect your life.
Another important test of a well-wisher is how they respond to your success. Human relationships are complicated by comparison. Two people may genuinely like each other and still experience jealousy when one begins moving ahead. We compare careers, income, houses, relationships, recognition, social status and achievements. Social media has intensified this tendency because we are constantly exposed to carefully selected versions of other people’s lives.
A genuine well-wisher rises above this competition. When something wonderful happens to you, they do not immediately think, “Why not me?” They are capable of saying, “I am genuinely happy for you.” That sentence may sound simple, but being truly happy for another person’s success requires considerable emotional maturity. The person who celebrates your success without feeling diminished by it is precious. Someone who wants you to become bigger without fearing that they will become smaller deserves a special place in your life. A genuine well-wisher does not compete with your light; they are happy to see you shine.
Life also reveals people when our circumstances change. There are periods when the phone keeps ringing, invitations arrive, people want meetings and everyone seems interested in being associated with us. Our ideas suddenly appear brilliant, our presence becomes desirable and many people want to be part of our world. Then circumstances can change. A business may fail, a career may slow down, a position may disappear, fame may fade, money may become difficult, health may deteriorate or a personal crisis may arrive. Suddenly, some phones stop ringing.
These periods can be painful, but they are also deeply educational. Difficulty has an extraordinary ability to reveal the nature of relationships. When you have something people want, it can be difficult to distinguish affection from interest. When you have very little to offer, the distinction becomes much clearer. A genuine well-wisher does not calculate your value according to your designation, bank balance, influence, fame or usefulness. They remember the human being behind all these temporary identities. Success introduces us to many people; difficult times often introduce us to the people who genuinely care.
It is equally important to understand that a well-wisher may not necessarily be someone we traditionally describe as a friend. Some of our greatest well-wishers may be our parents, teachers, mentors, colleagues, seniors, siblings, spouses or people with whom we do not share a conventionally close friendship. There may even be someone who regularly disagrees with us but sincerely wants us to do well. We should therefore stop evaluating every meaningful relationship only through labels. Instead of merely asking, “Who are my friends?”, perhaps we should occasionally ask, “Who genuinely wants the best for me?” The answer may surprise us.
There is also a deeper spiritual dimension to this idea. Much of our suffering in relationships comes from possession and expectation. We expect people to call us, remember us, support us, agree with us, invite us, praise us and behave according to our expectations. When they do not, we feel disappointed or hurt. Spiritual growth gradually teaches us that love does not always have to possess. Sometimes the purest form of affection is simply wanting another human being to be peaceful, healthy, successful and happy, even when we receive nothing from their happiness.
This is where an ordinary relationship can evolve into something much deeper. A relationship based primarily on expectation keeps asking, “What am I getting from you?” A relationship based on genuine goodwill begins asking, “Am I bringing something good into your life?” That movement from expectation towards goodwill is one of the most beautiful forms of inner transformation.
A genuine well-wisher also does not encourage our weaknesses simply to keep us happy. There is a mistaken belief that people who support us should support everything we do. That is not genuine support. If someone encourages our anger, arrogance, irresponsibility, dishonesty, addiction or destructive behaviour simply because they want to remain on our good side, they may actually be contributing to our problems. A genuine well-wisher understands the difference between supporting a person and supporting that person’s mistakes. They can stand beside us without justifying everything we do.
This is particularly important for our psychological and emotional growth. Sometimes we need reassurance. Sometimes we need encouragement. Sometimes we need rest, professional help or simply somebody who listens without judging us. But there are also times when we need a trustworthy person to hold a mirror in front of us. Someone who helps us see ourselves more clearly can contribute more to our growth than dozens of people who simply applaud us.
We should also be careful not to judge people’s intentions merely by the sweetness of their words. The person who praises us may not always be our well-wisher, and the person who criticises us may not necessarily be our enemy. Criticism can certainly come from jealousy, bitterness or negativity, and we need the wisdom to recognise that. But constructive criticism from someone who genuinely wants us to improve should not automatically be rejected merely because it hurts our ego. Spiritual maturity requires us to examine intention. Was this person trying to humiliate me, or were they trying to help me see something I could not see myself? Sometimes one honest sentence from a genuine well-wisher can save us from years of unnecessary difficulty.
There is, however, an even more important question than identifying our own well-wishers: for whom are we a genuine well-wisher? Spirituality should never be only about what we receive from relationships. It should make us examine what we contribute to them. We all want people who celebrate our success, but do we genuinely celebrate theirs? We want people who remain with us when we struggle, but do we remain when they struggle? We want people who tell us the truth, but do we have the courage to speak truth with compassion? We want people who do not use us, but are our own relationships free from calculation? We want others to forgive our imperfections, but how forgiving are we of theirs?
Spirituality begins when we stop using every teaching to evaluate other people and start applying it to ourselves. Instead of spending our entire lives searching for the perfect friend, perhaps we should first try to become a genuine well-wisher to the people around us. Wish good for people without expecting something in return. Help when you can. Correct without humiliating. Celebrate without comparing. Support without controlling. Forgive without constantly reminding someone of their mistakes. And sometimes, simply pray that another human being finds happiness and peace, even if you are no longer an important part of their life.
As we grow older, the number of people around us becomes less important than the quality of their intentions. We do not need hundreds of people calling themselves our friends. Even a handful of people who sincerely want us to remain healthy, peaceful, grounded, successful and good human beings can be an extraordinary blessing.
We should protect such relationships. We should not take genuine well-wishers for granted merely because they are not constantly visible. We should not lose someone who genuinely cares about us simply because they once told us an uncomfortable truth. And we should never confuse constant praise with loyalty, social proximity with affection, networking with friendship or popularity with meaningful human connection.
When you find someone who is genuinely happy when you succeed, concerned when you are going wrong, present when circumstances become difficult and honest enough to correct you without trying to control you, value that person. Friends can make our journey enjoyable, but genuine well-wishers can help make our journey meaningful, wiser and better.
Ultimately, life is not about collecting the maximum number of relationships. It is about discovering a few relationships in which there is truth without cruelty, support without selfishness, affection without possession and goodwill without expectation. Perhaps one of life’s greatest blessings is not simply having people who enjoy being with us, but having people who genuinely want something beautiful for us even when they have absolutely nothing to gain from it.
And perhaps an even greater spiritual achievement is becoming that kind of person for someone else.
— Sonu Tyagi
Founder, Go Spiritual & Approach Entertainment
Visit at www.sonutyagi.com & www.approachentertainment.com
Sonu Tyagi is an award-winning writer, director and producer, and Founder of Go Spiritual and Approach Entertainment. With over two decades of experience in media, journalism, advertising, public relations, films and entertainment, he has built a multidisciplinary career in communications and creative industries. Through Approach Entertainment, he works across celebrity management, film productions, advertising, film marketing and events. Through Go Spiritual, Tyagi promotes spirituality, compassion, humanity, mental wellness, vegetarianism, non-violence and conscious living. He believes real spirituality is about inner transformation—developing self-awareness, resilience, peace and compassion while becoming a better and more responsible human being.
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