With the growth of online dating sites and social media, ghosting—the phenomenon where a connection is suddenly cut off without explanation—has become increasingly common in the Indian dating scene.
A recent NumroVani study found that about 75% of Indian millennials have experienced ghosting in their romantic relationships. Of these, more than 40% reported extreme emotional pain, including feelings of confusion and rejection.
Interestingly, women were found to experience ghosting more frequently than men. While 68% of female respondents said they had been ghosted, 58% of male respondents reported the same.
Ghosting in romantic relationships can have significant psychological effects. Studies show that those who are ghosted tend to experience lower self-esteem, increased anxiety, and difficulty trusting others in future relationships. These effects are particularly pronounced in individuals with anxious or avoidant attachment styles.

Let us dive into how each zodiac sign handles ghosting:

Aries
Aries initially responds with fiery rage and indignation when ghosted. They find the abrupt silence disrespectful and detest being overlooked. However, their ruling planet Mars gives them a competitive edge, enabling them to quickly redirect their energy towards self-improvement. Whether it’s catching up with friends, picking up a new hobby, or hitting the gym, Aries channels their frustration into action. Their resilience ensures a swift recovery, leaving the ghoster in their rearview mirror.
Taurus
Taurus values stability and loyalty, so ghosting feels like a breach of trust. When it happens, they may retreat into their shell to nurse their wounds. As an Earth sign, Taurus craves closure, and the lack of communication can leave them replaying scenarios in their mind. Over time, their grounded nature helps them heal. To regain balance, they might turn to comforting rituals like indulging in good food, listening to music, or spending time in nature.
Gemini
Ghosting throws Gemini into a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions. Ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, they overanalyze the situation, mentally replaying interactions to understand what went wrong. They may initially seek clarity but quickly move on if the ghoster doesn’t respond. Geminis thrive on variety and distraction, so they’re likely to jump into new social circles or dating apps to put the experience behind them.
Cancer
The gentle nurturer of the zodiac, Cancer, takes ghosting to heart. They may feel blindsided and retreat into their emotional shell to process their pain. Ruled by the Moon, Cancer experiences emotions deeply and takes time to grieve the lost connection. However, their natural empathy eventually leads them to forgive and move forward. Support from close friends and family often helps them rebuild their emotional foundation.
Leo
Leos thrive on attention and admiration, so ghosting can feel like a blow to their pride. Initially, they may feel hurt and wonder how anyone could overlook their vibrant presence. However, ruled by the Sun, Leo possesses natural self-confidence and bounces back quickly. They often reframe the situation by focusing on their strengths, reminding themselves of their worth, and surrounding themselves with people who appreciate them.
Virgo
Virgos approach relationships with meticulous care, so ghosting disrupts their carefully crafted expectations. They may overanalyze the situation, scrutinizing every detail to figure out what went wrong. This self-critical approach can lead to feelings of inadequacy. However, Virgo’s practical side eventually takes over. They focus on personal growth, using the experience as a lesson to improve clarity and discernment in future relationships.
Libra
Ghosting deeply unsettles Libra, the sign of harmony and relationships. They value open communication and fairness, so the abrupt silence feels unjust. Initially, they may reach out for closure or attempt to smooth things over. If that fails, Libra’s diplomatic nature helps them move on gracefully. They redirect their energy towards maintaining inner balance, enjoying art or beauty, and reconnecting with friends.
Scorpio
Known for their emotional depth and intensity, Scorpios do not take ghosting lightly. They may feel betrayed, experiencing a mix of heartbreak and anger. Scorpios crave emotional honesty, so the lack of closure can be particularly upsetting. However, their transformative nature allows them to rise stronger from the experience. Often, the pain fuels personal growth, making them more guarded and resilient in future relationships.
Sagittarius
Sagittarius values freedom and adventure, so while ghosting may sting initially, it rarely holds them back for long. This optimistic sign quickly turns the experience into an opportunity for growth, seeking someone who aligns better with their free-spirited nature. Sagittarians are likely to channel their energy into new experiences or adventures, using them as an escape and a path to healing.
Capricorn
Capricorns approach ghosting with remarkable composure. While they may initially feel hurt or disappointed, they view ghosting as a reflection of the ghoster’s character rather than their own. Using the experience as motivation, Capricorns channel their energy into achieving their long-term goals, whether in work or personal development. Their practicality ensures they emerge stronger and more focused.
Aquarius
Aquarians value intellectual connection and independence, so ghosting leaves them puzzled rather than devastated. They often rationalize the situation as a mismatch of values or priorities. Emotionally detached, they quickly shift their focus to their passions, friends, or humanitarian projects. Ghosting rarely dampens their enthusiasm for meeting new people, as they see it as part of the modern dating landscape.
Pisces
Pisces, the dreamers and romantics of the zodiac, feel ghosting deeply. They may internalize the pain, assuming they did something wrong. As natural romantics, they might idealize the ghoster, making it harder to move on. However, their intuitive and spiritual nature helps them find closure within themselves. Pisces often turns to art, music, or writing as an outlet for processing their emotions and healing.
Written by:
Sidhharrth S Kumaar
Registered Pharmacist, Astro Numerologist, Life & Relationship Coach, Vaastu Expert, I Ching & Fengshui Expert, Energy Healer, Music Therapist, and Founder, NumroVani.